What Does It Really Mean to "Educate" Your Clients?

When you hear the phrase "educate your clients," does it conjure images of standing at a chalkboard, diagramming the difference between a loveseat and a settee? Or maybe, you picture a client nodding eagerly as you cover the finer points of fabric durability? (Spoiler: it’s neither of these.) Educating your clients isn’t about lecturing; it’s about giving them the confidence to make decisions and the clarity to trust yours. 

Here’s the thing: interior design can feel overwhelming for those new to it. Most clients walk in with a Pinterest board full of dreams and a vocabulary that maxes out at “modern farmhouse.” They want the magic but aren’t always sure how it’s made. That’s where you come in—not to play professor, but to guide them through the process with a little patience, a lot of insight, and just enough humor to keep it from feeling like a chore.

The Balance Between Informative and Intuitive

Your clients don’t need a masterclass in lighting fixtures or upholstery techniques (though you’d absolutely crush teaching one). What they need is a high-level understanding of how your decisions will improve their lives and their spaces. Instead of overwhelming them with jargon, find the sweet spot: enough information to build trust without derailing the conversation into minutiae.

For example, if a client asks why you’re recommending a wool rug, skip the technical rundown of fiber resilience. Instead, try this: “Wool holds up beautifully over time, even in high-traffic areas, and it’s easier to clean when life happens—because it always does.” Boom. You’ve addressed their curiosity, given them a practical reason to agree, and left them feeling like you’ve got their back.

Anticipate the FAQs

Part of educating your clients is staying one step ahead. Think about the questions you’ve been asked a hundred times before:

  • “Why is this so expensive?”

  • “How long will it take?”

  • “Can we just DIY this part?”

Instead of waiting for these to pop up (often at the least convenient moment), weave the answers into your initial conversations. Transparency—about timelines, budgets, and what’s realistically possible—goes a long way in building trust. When clients feel informed, they’re far less likely to balk at a quote or a lead time later on.

Teach Without Preaching

Nobody likes a know-it-all, even when they really do know it all. The trick is to share your expertise without making your client feel like they’re out of their depth. Avoid saying things like, “Actually, that’s not how it works,” or, “You’re wrong about that.” Instead, reframe your response: “I see why you’d think that—a lot of people do. But here’s why this approach might work better for your space.”

By validating their perspective first, you’re keeping the conversation collaborative rather than corrective. This approach builds rapport and shows that you value their input, even if it’s a little off-base.

Show Them the Process

Clients often come to you without a clear understanding of how much a renovation or furnishings can cost, nor how design fees or mark-ups work. While you don’t need to tell them all of your backend operations, a little transparency goes a long way. Breaking down costs in an approachable way helps them see the value in each element and reduces sticker shock later.

You can also let them see what goes into the decisions you’re making. This doesn’t mean sharing every single email with vendors, but it can mean walking them through your mood boards or showing them how you’ve narrowed down options for their project.

For instance, if you’re proposing a custom-built shelving unit, explain why the measurements matter and how it’ll elevate their storage game. “This is designed to perfectly fit your collection of antique cameras and leave room for a few books or decorative accents. It’ll keep things looking intentional rather than cluttered.” Now they’re not just hearing “custom shelving”—they’re picturing the end result and understanding the “why” behind it.

Humor Is Your Secret Weapon

Let’s face it: there will be moments when your client’s eyes glaze over, especially during discussions about lead times or budget breakdowns. That’s when a well-placed joke or lighthearted comment can save the day. Humor makes you approachable and reminds your clients that, at the end of the day, this process should be fun. After all, they’re creating a home, not enduring a tax audit. 

For example, if a client groans about how long it’ll take to get their dream sofa, you might say, “I know…but hey, it’ll give us plenty of time to debate throw pillow colors.” It’s a small thing, but it keeps the tone light and the relationship strong.

Educating your clients is about empowerment. It’s about giving them the tools to appreciate and maintain the space you’ve created together while helping them see the value of your expertise. And when they understand the value of what you’re bringing to the table, they’ll trust you to do what you do best.

xx, Danae

10 Personal Touches to Build Client Relationships

An interior design project is quite the journey, and just like a road trip, the people you travel with can make all the difference in the experience–for both you, the designer, and your clients! For many, making such a large investment and entrusting their home to someone is a huge leap of faith. So, although you have plenty on your plate, exceptional service doesn’t overlook that element of empathy and warmth. This human connection not only smooths out any bumps in the road but also makes the whole journey more fun and rewarding. Here are our top tips for building and nurturing your client relationships!

1. Begin with a Thorough Questionnaire

Start by getting to know your clients deeply. A comprehensive questionnaire can be your best friend here. Ask about their special needs, family members' hobbies and passions, sentimental items they want to incorporate, and more. This helps in designing a space that truly reflects their personalities and shows that you care about the details that make their house a home.

2. Celebrate Milestones with Thoughtful Gifts

Everyone loves a little surprise, especially when there’s a personal touch. Send small, meaningful gifts at different stages of the project. A welcome gift when you start working together, a special gift at project completion – like a commissioned watercolor painting of their new home – and even something small during major holidays (check out our gift guide here!). These gestures speak volumes about your appreciation for them.

3. Keep the Communication Flowing

Consistent updates are key. Weekly or biweekly email updates let your clients always feel in the loop. This transparency builds trust and keeps excitement alive. Plus, it prevents any misunderstandings or surprises down the line.

4. Bring On the Collaboration

Encourage a collaborative design process. Always welcome their input or feedback. Use tools like a shared Pinterest board where clients can add their own inspirations and ideas. This kind of involvement ensures the final design truly reflects their vision. It’s their space, after all!

5. Small Talk for a Big Impact

Keep a client profile cheat sheet on hand for meetings. This cheat sheet should include relevant information about your clients, allowing you and your team to engage in thoughtful, personalized chit-chat. A couple of minutes of genuine conversation about their favorite hobby or their latest family adventure can go a long way in building rapport.

6. Personalize Your Email Templates

Templates are super helpful, but avoid going overboard on generic emails that were obviously copy-pasted. Tailor your communications to each client. Mention specific details about their project or something personal they’ve shared. This shows that you’re not just another service provider but someone who genuinely cares about their needs and preferences.

7. Engage on Social Media

Engage with your clients on social media. Reply to their comments, share their progress photos if they’re comfortable with it, and celebrate their milestones publicly. This not only strengthens your relationship but also highlights your dedication to your clients to potential new clients.

8. Go on Design Outings Together

If it fits within your scope of work and labor budget, join your clients on outings to sit on furniture or choose decor. These joint activities can be fun and incredibly insightful, giving you a better understanding of their preferences and comfort.

9. Offer Discounts on Future Projects

Show your appreciation for repeat clients or referrals by offering discounts on future projects. This not only encourages loyalty but also makes clients feel valued and recognized for their continued trust in your work.

10. Ongoing Greetings

The project might be over, but your relationship doesn’t have to be. Send continued greeting cards even after the project is done. Whether it’s for their birthdays, anniversaries, or just to check in, these small touches help you stay top of mind and show that you haven’t forgotten about them.

Building and maintaining strong client relationships is about much more than just delivering great design work. It’s about creating a personalized experience that makes clients feel valued and appreciated. From the initial questionnaire to continued greetings long after the project is completed, these small but thoughtful touches can make a world of difference!

xx, Danae